Growing old together is something many couples dream about. Sharing morning coffee, taking walks, remembering milestones. But when care needs begin to change, some families wonder what comes next. Will we still live together? Will one of us have to move before the other?
At Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point in Arlington, Washington, the answer is simple. Yes, couples can stay together, even if one partner needs a little extra help or if memory becomes a challenge. Here, we support aging together with dignity, comfort, and care.
Can Couples Live Together in Assisted Living?
Yes, they can. In fact, it is becoming more common as more senior living communities recognize the importance of keeping couples together. At Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point, we make that possible through shared apartments and flexible care plans.
Couples move into the same apartment, just like they have shared space their whole lives. They furnish it with their own items, hang family photos on the walls, and bring in familiar chairs, bedding, and keepsakes. The goal is not just to provide care. It is to make life feel normal and full.
Each partner gets the care they need without disrupting the other. If one needs help getting dressed, while the other is still fully independent, both can share the same space. Our team supports care needs quietly and respectfully.
What Life Looks Like for Couples at Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point
Life together at Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point feels like home. Couples eat meals together, attend activities side by side, and keep their shared routines. Some enjoy morning walks. Others prefer puzzles and reading. Many join in music, games, and community events. And some enjoy being near each other throughout the day.
Residents do not need to give up their independence to live here. We support it. They choose how to spend their days, and we help where needed. Our team respects privacy and allows each couple to enjoy their time together on their terms.
Because we are a smaller, boutique-style community, couples quickly get to know staff and neighbors. There is a natural rhythm that feels less like an institution and more like a close neighborhood.
Personalized Care for Both Partners
Every resident at Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point has their own care plan. That includes couples.
One spouse may be mostly independent, while the other might need help with medications, mobility, or memory care. Our staff works with each resident and their family to understand what is needed now and how that may change over time.
Care is provided gently and only where it is needed. There is no pressure to do more than what is helpful. We want each resident to feel supported but not restricted.
This means couples can continue living side by side while getting the care they need as individuals. Nobody is forced to move or live apart because one person needs more help.
What Happens If One Partner Needs Memory Care?
This is a question we hear often. And it is an important one.
At Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point, we offer both assisted living and memory care. That means couples have options. If one partner needs memory care, we work closely with the family to decide the best way forward.
Sometimes, the couple can continue living together in assisted living with added memory support. Other times, the partner with memory challenges may move to our memory care neighborhood, while the other remains in assisted living nearby. In both cases, we make sure visits are frequent and easy. Couples still spend their days together, have meals, or enjoy quiet time.
The focus is always on emotional connection and safety. Our goal is to support both partners without taking away their bond.
Staying Together Brings Emotional and Financial Benefits
Couples who age together tend to feel more stable emotionally. Being near a spouse provides comfort, helps reduce anxiety, and maintains a sense of identity. For many, it is the difference between feeling supported and feeling lost.
There is also a practical side. Sharing an apartment in assisted living is often more affordable than placing each partner in separate care homes. You combine resources in one location and reduce duplicated services, which can help with long-term budgeting and planning.
Families tell us that keeping loved ones together helps with peace of mind. They are not just receiving care; they are living life together.
Questions Couples Should Ask When Touring Senior Living
If you and your partner are exploring assisted living, here are a few questions to consider:
- Are shared apartments available for couples?
- Can each person have a different care plan?
- Is memory care located close by if needed later?
- What is the process if one partner needs more support than the other?
- How does the staff support both independence and connection?
At Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point, we welcome these questions. We want families to feel confident and informed before making a decision.
Why Couples in Arlington Choose Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point
Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point is a trusted senior living community serving Arlington, Washington, and nearby cities like Marysville, Everett, and Stanwood. Couples choose us because they want to stay together in a place that feels like home.
We are known for our compassionate care, friendly staff, and welcoming atmosphere. Our apartments are private, our routines are gentle, and our focus is always on meaningful connection.
We know how important it is to keep couples close. Our team does everything we can to support that, no matter how needs may change with time.
Let’s Talk About Aging Together
If you are thinking about assisted living for you and your spouse, or you are helping your parents explore their options, we invite you to visit Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point.
You will see how couples live comfortably together with the support they need. You will meet caregivers who treat residents with respect and warmth. And you will experience what makes our community feel like family.
You do not have to choose between getting help and staying close. At Fields Senior Living at Smokey Point, both are possible.
