How to Move a Parent With Dementia

Moving a parent with dementia to an assisted living or memory care community is a significant transition. At Fields Senior Living of Spokane Valley, we understand the emotional challenges this process can bring for families.

Here’s our advice on how to move a parent with dementia to while prioritizing their comfort and emotional well-being.

Yes, assisted living communities often offer specialized memory care programs tailored to meet the needs of individuals with dementia. These programs focus on creating a safe, supportive environment where residents can maintain independence while receiving the care they need.

Fields Senior Living of Spokane Valley Memory Care program provides personalized support to ensure residents feel secure, respected, and valued.

1. Establish Where Your Parent Is in Their Dementia Diagnosis

Understanding your parent’s stage of dementia can guide your decisions. This information helps you identify the right type of care and effectively plan for the transition.

2. Initiate Conversations About Moving

Start discussions early, keeping the tone calm and positive. Avoid overwhelming them with too much information at once. Use simple, reassuring language to help them feel involved in the decision-making process.

3. Find an Assisted Living Community You Trust

Visit multiple communities to find the right fit. Focus on facilities with memory care programs, like Fields Senior Living, that prioritize safety, personalized care, and meaningful engagement.

4. Make a Few Visits to the Community before Moving

Introduce your parent to their future home gradually. Attending events or meals in the community can help them become familiar with the environment and staff.

5. Work to Establish Relationships With Future Caregivers

Building trust with caregivers before the move can ease your parent’s anxiety. Meet with staff and share your parent’s preferences, routines, and personality to create a seamless care experience.

6. Keep the Logistics of the Move to a Minimum for Your Loved One

Simplify moving day by handling logistics yourself or enlisting help. Minimize disruptions to your parent’s routine and avoid overwhelming them with too many tasks.

7. Pack Intentionally

Bring familiar items like family photos, favorite blankets, or personal mementos. These objects can make their new space feel more like home.

8. Be Prepared for Bumps or Bad Days

Transitions can be challenging, especially for individuals with dementia. Stay patient and supportive, and remember that bad days are part of the process.

9. Remain Calm and Positive on Move-In Day

Your demeanor can influence your parent’s emotions. Stay upbeat and reassuring as they settle into their new home.

10. Acknowledge the Transition Will Take Time

Adjusting to a new environment is a process. Give your parent the time and space they need to adapt while offering consistent support.

• Use consistent language when discussing the move to avoid confusion.
• Include practical items alongside sentimental belongings to ensure comfort and familiarity.
• Decorate their room with items that reflect their personality and life story.

• Help your parent join activities or meet neighbors on their first day.
• Listen to their questions and provide thoughtful, reassuring answers.
• Share any immediate observations or concerns with the caregiving team.

• Visit or call regularly to maintain a sense of familiarity and support.
• Transitions can take several weeks, so allow your parents time to adjust.
• Reassess as Needed: Stay open to changes in their care plan based on their evolving needs.

Fields Senior Living of Spokane Valley is dedicated to ensuring each transition is handled with care and compassion. Our Assisted Living and Memory Care programs are designed to provide the personalized support your loved one needs to thrive in a safe and welcoming environment.

Contact Us Today to learn more about our services or schedule a tour. Let us help you navigate this important step with care and understanding.